As I parent, I always feel like there is something better I could be doing. All the time. There’s this songbird perched on my shoulder, chirping away: “What else? What more? What next?” Maybe that changes once they move out
Have you ever wondered how revolutionaries are made? Like, no really, when I read about someone who dedicates their life to making change and I always think, “How in the Hell did they come to be where they are?” It’s
…as in the actions that balance us. The gives and takes that lightens our burdens or increases our strengths. The movement that keeps us centered. Every Equinox I post something about the beauty of balance. Just like how at every
I am always so happy at the change of the year. Goodbye 2013, fucking hell what a frienemy of a year. When I look ahead to 2014, I see jars. Yes, big beautiful jars. This year I fell in love
Yup, it’s a real day. Why? Well, it’s mostly about fisting being viewed as an extreme sex act that isn’t allowed in mainstream porn. Apparently, it’s too difficult for some companies to take the time to differentiate between punching and
How is summer almost over already? This has been a busy season. I’m excited to announce that I’ll be co teaching a workshop on radical parenting at this year’s Symbiosis Gathering! Joining forces with Tomas Moniz continues to be a
Carol Queen made the most heartfelt comment to me at Friday nights opening reception for the “I Masturbate…” photo exhibition at the Center for Sex & Culture. She said the center really, truly felt like a community gathering space. And
My 2013 looks about like this. No idea what’s going to happen next. It’s all very intense. I’m navel gazing, crystal gazing, searching for both the hidden meanings and the flags waving right in my face. This is what I
Necessity is the mother of invention, right? Here is what I need: other parents. I need you. I need to be with quirky parents like me. I need to look into your face and see that you’re just as determined
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