Monthly Archives: January 2013

I Review “The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure” by Aislinn Emirzian and Charlie Glickman, PhD

Read the full review here: http://www.sfbg.com/2013/01/30/starting-slow-and-ramping My favorite quote? Leaving the “get it up, get it in, get it off” mentality behind and moving into a receptive role can result in a new feeling of vulnerability. But men can expand the scope of what sex means to them by exploring the worldof prostate play. According to [...]

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Valentine’s Day Give Away! Enter to win a Lovehoney Prize Pack!

Check it out parents, how much do I love you? Recently I was asked to contribute some sexpert advice for Lovehoney.com on how to heat up your Valentine’s Day. This is what I said: “Parents, especially single parents, do not under estimate the erotic potential of a good sexting session. You can spell out your [...]

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In Honor of E’s birthday, let me tell you a tale…

Forgive me if I’ve told you this story before. I’m halfway in to a bottle of old zin and reminiscing something fierce. When I was pregnant with my first baby, I went in to get the ultra sound that would tell us the sex. I wasn’t too concerned about it, I just wanted us both [...]

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Musing

My 2013 looks about like this. No idea what’s going to happen next. It’s all very intense. I’m navel gazing, crystal gazing, searching for both the hidden meanings and the flags waving right in my face. This is what I know so far. I don’t want to work alone. I know for some people being [...]

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What is High-Quality Sexuality Education?

Here is how I define high-quality sex education: 1. Enthusiastic consent is the primary focus of all sexual activity 2. All partners are seen as equally deserving of pleasure 3. Negotiations are based in non-violent communication 4. Dismantles unrealistic expectations of sexual performance 5. Acknowledges a spectrum of sexual preferences and sexual appetites 6. Provides [...]

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2013: What does peace look like to you?

photo by Tomas Moniz

Happy New Year! 2012 will go down as a year of extreme highs and lows. If your 2012 was mellow and consistent, take a moment to congratulate yourself for having enough shock absorbers in place to ride the quakes! You must have put in some work to create and sustain stability in such turbulent times. [...]

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