Monthly Archives: February 2012

Spiritual Practices

I had an unexpected conversation the other day. Ever have that happen? You go into a situation prepared for one kind of information exchange and then something completely different takes place? I love when that happens. I’m really private about few things; my spiritual practices being one of them. I’m not sure why, I just [...]

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the (cont)ex(t)

It’s a funny thing to share a root system with someone and turn out to be completely different trees. Life is all about context, right? It’s how we know here from there. I know I’m here because I’m not there…or… I’m going there because I don’t want to be here. I’ve got a person to [...]

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Valentine’s Day

The first Valentine’s that I ever really cared about happened when I was 13. I was out until kind of late for a school night, I can’t remember how late, but it had to be about 9pm when I walked in the door. My mom had this funny look on her face, “Your dad came [...]

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People of Color Porn Review (In Honor of Black History Month)

I’m so honored to know so many of the amazing folks reviewed in this post!

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#186: The lie of “strength.”

“I don’t think it’s a virtue or an accomplishment to hide or deny your pain so that you can take care of others.” Yes. This.

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Blood

My brother came for a visit last month. He came to the boys’ midweek soccer game. We’re getting to the age where you can’t really tell how far apart we are in age (it’s 6 years). He has had a hard life and it shows and I still look a little younger than I am. [...]

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