Monthly Archives: February 2011

Aching for summer…

This picture makes me homesick: Nothing strange about homesickness, except, well I’ve never had a home like that. Yes, I know it’s a tent. And no, I am not saying I want to live outdoors. I didn’t spend anytime outdoors until my late teen years. Part of becoming an adult was learning that I liked [...]

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Repost: Words, binary and biphobia, or: why “bi” is binary but “FTM” is not (via Bi radical)

This is such a great post on sexuality. It’s deep, dense and real. I don’t know the writer, but the blog, Bi radical is articulating what a lot of people are feeling: Before I write - a disclaimer: this post contains criticism of the non-bisexual-identified transgender community and discourse. Please be aware that I writing [...]

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Lady Porn Day!

Technically, I think this is safe for work… I don’t know how to credit this image properly. I follow Queen Takes Night on Tumblr and this is the imagery posted most often. I haven’t seen anything else like it. And yesssss it makes me happy. It’s not easy to walk the line of a switch. [...]

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Sounds, Scents, and Valentines

A purpose of human life, no matter who is controlling it, is to love whoever is around to be loved. -Kurt Vonnegut, Sirens of Titan   I’ve had this blog over a year. I remember my last valentine’s post. A graphic with a poem. A promise made from my heart to the universe. An agreement to [...]

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The revolution was twitterized

There are times when I wish Twitter was not named “Twitter”. Times like now, when one of the most populous countries in Africa (or Middle East) has a revolution. I’ve been glued to my twitter stream every night, sometimes all night, reading along as a revolution unfurled in live time. I want to clarify that it [...]

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Shades Magazine and Sex Positive Media

“We live in a culture that puts so much pressure on women to box themselves in. We’re taught that there is too great a cost for us to indulge in questioning and exploration, that time is of the essence, that our sex drives are based upon family and emotion, that we need to hurry up [...]

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Humans Aren’t Rodents. Porn Isn’t Ruining Marriages. (via The Sexademic)

This is a great point by point takedown of pseudo-science used as fear-mongering. Humans are not prairie voles. We are not guinea pigs or mice. We're humans. Pop science loves to trot out research on rodents to confirm or challenge behavioral assumptions. But what the writers often miss is that our behaviors are shaped by [...]

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Vulnerability and Social Science Research

[ted id=1042] I have so much to say about this talk, this woman, but really, it’s all amazing. And I am just so grateful.

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Why We Love

“There’s no bad reason to love someone.” - Stephen Elliot from The Daily Rumpus email “Rumblings” 02/06/11. Is that the proper way to cite an email? Where are my damn handbooks… now which one is appropriate for a personal blog? APA, Chicago or MLA? Fuck it. I’m being too sensitive, I know. But if you’d [...]

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Truer words…

Ever read something so honest, it makes your heart hurt? Once upon a time while roaming the great wilds of the internets, I found this blog. And the voice sounded real to me. Real in a way that not too many writers can convince me of. I can’t quantify it, can barely qualify it, but [...]

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